Unraveling Traditions

Most people have attended at least one wedding in our lifetime, whether it was our own or someone close to us. While the ceremony and reception unravel, we become puzzled with questions in our head. 

Where do we get these crazy or absurd traditions? Why does a bride throw her bouquet of flowers or the groom must retrieve his bride's garter belt? 

Do we really know the history and truth behind these traditions? How did we ever become accustomed to these traditions at a wedding? 

We sit there quietly, applauding the entertainment and never questioning the true meaning behind these traditions. Like most brides’ we are pressured to follow the expectations of society and are usually critic when we do not follow these traditions. 

As some brides are overwhelmed with frustration and refused to participate in these bogus rituals, it important to understand the history and purpose behind our traditions.

The Bride's Veil

The veil is seen as a symbol of modesty, youth, innocence and purity. The purpose of the veil was to protect the bride and her face; ward off evil.

The Wedding Bands

The wedding ring is seen as a symbol of eternity and the open center represents a doorway into the future. The tradition of wearing the wedding ring on the third finger of the left hand originated in Egypt.  It was believed that there was a vein from that finger that ran directly to the heart; representing everlasting love.

The Bouquet Toss

The bride's bouquet is seen as a symbol of prosperity; representing happiness, fertility and love. Centuries ago, brides carried bouquets of aromatic fruit, garlic, herbs and blossom to ward off the evil spirits. Originally guests would tear off a piece of the bride's dress for good luck transformed into the bouquet toss to preserve the condition of the dress. 

The Garter Belt 

The garter belt is seen as a symbol of good luck and prosperity. The purpose was for groom to bring luck to their marriage if he owned a piece of the dress.  Just like the story of the bouquet toss, the tradition changed to the garter belt. 

The Wedding Dress 

The white dress is seen as a symbol of purity. Before the Victorian Era, royal brides wore vibrant and rich fabrics whereas the common woman would wear a grey dress; most often was worn again at church. 

Bridesmaids

The purpose of bridesmaids is there to support the bride during her stressful time of planning for her wedding. The tradition of the bridal party was used to fool evil spirits that might be lurking about.

If you are thinking of creating a fun wedding or possibly reconnecting to your cultural roots? For centuries, there has been hundreds of traditions and customs created around the world. 

Why not surprise your guests or perhaps create a special moment for your special day. Click to visit Buzz Feed article on Wedding Traditions Around the Globe.

Elizabeth - Bride to be 

Source: Google Images, Bride Tossing Bouquet. Accessed March 7th, 2015.